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SeEking my Polaris
Tuesday, July 05, 2005
Grief
Don’t really feel like updating my blog much.
Just that a dear friend’s father-in-law has passed away weeks ago.
And now, another good friend’s granny passed away yesterday.
I promised myself to attend the wake tonight, late. Despite being busy.
Despite having to prepare for my Bangkok trip and fulfill my other commitments.
Probably to me, it seemed more important to be there for someone during times of grief.
And I have always preferred attending funerals compared to weddings.
Not that I enjoy deaths, we should all realized by now that death is inevitable and it comes to everyone.
But to those who are grieving over the lost of love ones
I just wanna be there for them as much as possible.
The joyous occasions come and go like the wind.
We relied on photos, videos, and well-wishes for remembrance
But the things like grief..
You don’t need any mementos
Because its an aching in your heart that will never go away
Its always there
After some years, the pain might be lessen
But the grieving does not stop. It only deepens.
The longing for that someone close to you who have passed away will never cease.
Its been 2 years, and I still missed her a great deal.
Just that a dear friend’s father-in-law has passed away weeks ago.
And now, another good friend’s granny passed away yesterday.
I promised myself to attend the wake tonight, late. Despite being busy.
Despite having to prepare for my Bangkok trip and fulfill my other commitments.
Probably to me, it seemed more important to be there for someone during times of grief.
And I have always preferred attending funerals compared to weddings.
Not that I enjoy deaths, we should all realized by now that death is inevitable and it comes to everyone.
But to those who are grieving over the lost of love ones
I just wanna be there for them as much as possible.
The joyous occasions come and go like the wind.
We relied on photos, videos, and well-wishes for remembrance
But the things like grief..
You don’t need any mementos
Because its an aching in your heart that will never go away
Its always there
After some years, the pain might be lessen
But the grieving does not stop. It only deepens.
The longing for that someone close to you who have passed away will never cease.
Its been 2 years, and I still missed her a great deal.
You drifted along with SeEking my Polaris... on 7/05/2005 
wee.. u r so sweet to give me the rose brooch after the wake. thanks..
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