SeEking my Polaris

Relationships are imperfect
Even marriage is fallible
Seemed like nothing is everlasting these days
Post modernization – where people seek individual gratifications;
Commitment is the BIG word that has been thrown out of the window
I got married because I feel like love at that moment
I filed for separation because 'sorry, I want out'.
Feelings drove us to decisions
And the very fact that our feelings are like roller coaster
Our life became a roller coaster ride in the making
Nobody sees everlasting as a by product of commitment
If you do,
Yes, you are naïve.

Met up with 2 poly friends last night, A & J. Both got ROM last year (separately) and both are going through separation now. It seemed their partners want to seek greener pasture. One for career, the other, a third party maybe. What seemed like juicy scandals left me chilled down my spine. The food on the table is getting cold, and we continued eating to hide the embarrassing silence that followed the deadly truth. It was good to catch up, and to lend a listening ear to old time friends. We parted with a promise to meet up for a drink next month. Friends sometimes found each other through adversity. And I will be there.

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