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Monday, July 18, 2005
A lil ReSpect
i did find some pictures from bkk... in my HP.. haha.
will upload them once i hv chance.
and surprised surprised!
there a picture of titus... he sent me an mms the other day.
contemplating whether to upload it...
probably, maybee, i know i know... the suspense's gonna kill you.
i just might.

anywayz.. what brings me here tonight is cos of a frn's blog that i hv read.
have been reading it on and off and lately... there's something that has been bugging me.
the thing is, the bf and her was separated cos the bf needs to go states for work
3 mths i think.
the bf havent been very hardworking in communicating with her
or updating the blog [both of them have access to update the blog u see]
ANYWAYz.... to cut the long story short
she is freaking [thats a mild term] unhappy about the way the bf is handling the LDR.
she blogs about:
-her fun times at work
-her shopping spree
-her night out with frns that she drank and drank
-her wonderful colleagues that buy her gifts
-some guys treating her damn nicely
-some guys sending stuff to her house
then she whines about:
-her bf not calling her, thus not loving her
-her bf not smsing her, thus not loving her
-her bf not blogging, thus not loving her
-how sucky her bf is being her bf; and thus, not loving her...

["Can you tell me what I did wrong? Why do you always bo chup me... I am here feeling so hurt and sad everyday, while I have no news from you"
"No there is nothing wrong with you. The fault lies in me. I am having a rough week"
I thought he should be in the US enjoying himself, its a bloody Work and Travel USA. What's so stressed about it?]

im not in the best position to judge. but i hv only 1 advise for her.
let go, or accept it.
dun spoil the relationship further; dun make your bf to be such a great devil infront of all your frns.. no matter how much u wanna provoke a reaction out of him.
he's not gonna care.
he's not gonna care if you dont care about his feelings in the first place.
no la, im not speaking up for the guy
but im worried about where all these are gonna lead
dun do things that you gonna regret
dun say things that you cant retract back
if you still love him..

*disclaimer: the above represnts my own opinions. no human beings should be hurt in the process of jotting down my 2 cents worth.

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